Saturday, June 30, 2007

Name that feeling: You'll feel better

Thu Jun 21, 2007 8:58AM EDT

By Julie Steenhuysen

CHICAGO (Reuters) - Putting feelings into words makes sadness and anger less intense, U.S. brain researchers said on Wednesday, in a finding that explains why talking to a therapist -- or even a sympathetic bartender -- often makes people feel better.

They said talking about negative feelings activates a part of the brain responsible for impulse control.

"This region of the brain seems to be involved in putting on the brakes," said University of California, Los Angeles researcher Matthew Lieberman, whose study appears in the journal Psychological Science.

He and colleagues scanned the brains of 30 people -- 18 women and 12 men between 18 and 36 -- who were shown pictures of faces expressing strong emotions.

They were asked to categorize the feelings in words like sad or angry, or to choose between two gender-specific names like "Sally or Harry" that matched the face.

What they found is that when people attached a word like angry to an angry-looking face, the response in the amygdala portion of the brain that handles fear, panic and other strong emotions decreased.

"This seems to dampen down the response in these basic emotional circuits in the brain -- in this case the amygdala," Lieberman said in a telephone interview.

What lights up instead is the right ventrolateral prefrontal cortex, part of the brain that controls impulses.

"This is the only region of the entire brain that is more active when you choose an emotion word for the picture than when you choose a name for the picture," he said.

He said the same region of the brain has been found in prior studies to play a role in motor control.

"If you are driving along and you see a yellow light, you have to inhibit one response in order to step on the brake," he said. "This same region helps to inhibit emotional responses as well."

The researchers did not find significant differences along gender lines, but Lieberman said prior studies have hinted at some differences in the benefits men and women derive from talking about their feelings.

"Women may do more of this spontaneously, but when men are instructed to do it, they may get more benefit from it," he said.

The results may alter the traditional view of why talking about feelings helps.

"I think we all believe that by talking about our feelings, we reach deep new insights, and that understanding is what transforms us," he said.

"What we see is something that at first blush is far more trivial. By simply putting the name to an emotion, the person doesn't feel like they've come to any new insight. And yet we see this dampening response anyway."

Lieberman said while there likely are benefits to gaining enhanced understanding, talking about feelings may do something more basic.

"It's not just the deep thoughts," he said. "It's something about the way we are built."

Wednesday, June 27, 2007

Reusable Bags - Save the environment and an animal




Eco-friendly reusable bags, plus facts & news on plastic bag issue

Billions of plastic bags are choking our planet. All of these "free" bags ultimately cost both consumers and the environment plenty:

Each year billions of bags end up as ugly litter.

Eventually they break down into tiny toxic bits polluting our soil, river, lakes and oceans

Production requires vast amounts of oil.

Countless animals needlessly die each year.

Make a difference, buy Reusablebags.com

Tuesday, June 26, 2007

Physical/Social Pain Overlap Theory

A summary of the Eisenberger and Lieberman study on how social pain (exclusion, rejection, loss of relationship) is experienced in the brain in the anterior cingulate cortex the same way physical pain is experienced. Same center of the brain. Social pain or disconnection in or from relationship is a very real biological experience similar to that of physical pain. Let's all continue working toward developing good healing connections with others.

The full study is written up here.

Monday, June 18, 2007

Paul Potts WINS FINALE of Britain's Got Talent



The back story on this guy is remarkable. Dealing with multiple physical illnesses and tremendously in debt as a result, a cell phone salesman and your basic average Joe - wins Britain's Got Talent.

Next week he is singing for the queen.

Miracles do occur! Follow your dreams and maintain that future focus. You do not need to WIN a competition to be a success - you just need to follow your dreams, intentions and heart to fully express yourself!

Paul Pott's website

Friday, June 15, 2007

"A lump of coal to a diamond"



From "Britain's Got Talent" - This guy was a cell phone salesman, but had a burning desire and inner need to sing! Check out what happens when one man moves into full self expression!

Let yourself feel the goodness and joy in the world! Anything is possible and it all starts with a belief in yourself! Let diamonds shine!

Tuesday, June 05, 2007

Recycle and donate old cell phones, computer equipment

A wonderful way to dispose of, in an environmentally friendly way your old cell phones, PDA devices, computer printers, monitors, ink cartridges etc.

Collective Good has aligned with a number of charitable organizations which you can choose as far as who to donate your cell phone etc. to. Some of the organizations have a prepaid shipping label for you so it doesn't cost but your time to take your package to the post office. You also get a letter of donation for tax purposes. It's a win win all the way around.

Click here to begin.

Monday, June 04, 2007

What are you proud of?



Happy Pride!

The Stonewall Riots - The beginning of Gay Pride

Each year in June gays and lesbians prance and parade to celebrate Gay Pride Month. The history of Gay Pride Celebrations began in 1969 in Greenwich Village, New York City at the Stonewall Inn.

At the time, it was common all over the United States for police to raid gay and lesbian bars. While they were purportedly looking for liquor law or other violations, patrons were arrested and dragged off to jail with no legitimate charges. The names of those arrested were often published in the papers and many of those people were fired from their jobs as a result.

In 1969 bars were about the only places gays and lesbians could gather in public. Most times, when the police would raid a bar, the gay and lesbian clientele would try to slip out the back or cower in the corners.
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The Stonewall Riots

But on the night of June 27th, 1969 something different happened. When police raided the Stonewall Inn, the butch lesbians and drag queens fought back. The bar patrons threw bottles and rocks at the police. They chanted, “Gay Power!” For several nights crowds grew outside the Stonewall Inn.

Word quickly spread around the country about the gay people who fought back against the police. The event became known as the Stonewall Rebellion or Stonewall Riots. Although there was a small gay rights movement around the country prior to Stonewall, after 1969 the movement changed.

The 1960s was a time of revolution. The Civil Rights Movement was in full swing and people took to the streets to protest the war in Vietnam. It was only a matter of time before gays and lesbians stood up for their rights as well.

Ever since, gays, lesbians, bisexuals and transgender people celebrate pride and call for basic civil rights by commemorating Stonewall. In New York City they march on the last Saturday in June. Across the US and all over the world, gays and lesbians remember the brave men and women of Stonewall every June in Gay Pride celebrations.